Alright time to address the ladies again:
Have you all ever noticed that once a guy knows he has your heart, most of the time it's just a game to them. They love to play around with it and can care less whether or not they break it. Ladies, we all know that we have very good instincts about these things, so why do we choose not to use them.
Here are some tips:
First of all, once a guy starts telling you what to do and not to do, you better set things straight and let him know he doesn't run things. Sometimes it's cool, but once it begins to get out of hand you better stand up and let him know what's up. You have to keep alert for this type of shit because a lot of times guys do this because they believe they have you at the palm of their hand. Prove them wrong!!! Secondly, people make mistakes, especially guys. Okay, so we decide to give them the benefit of the doubt at first, but the next time they fuck up you better show him what he is missing and what he is about to lose. Show him that you can be gone in a second and that he needs to get his act together.
Alright, next topic:
Lets say you love this guy and you would give anything to be with him. He knows he has you and that you will be with him whenever he wants. TIME TO STOP!!! Don't let him have that control over you. You can do whatever YOU want. Make him to come to you. Just because you love the guy doesn't mean he can treat you like shit.
So what do we do when the guy you love hits on your best friend. Normally I would say "the hell with you, I can do better". I still follow this, but now I think it's time to play their game. They want to be out flirting, trying to get girls, and still have you. Well fuck, we can do the same thing. You better start playing your role as a single person and show them that you don't need him and that you can find somebody better.
